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Come and Drink

6/2/2021

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My body needs water. I cannot get away from its daily demands. In my kitchen I gulp a few sips to down my supplements. I grab a bottle from my garage on my way out the door. My coffee has water in it. Surely that counts? 

My routine consumption rarely approaches the eight to nine glasses a day recommended by health professionals. I run a constant deficit, staying on the verge of dehydration. 

Why? 

Water is continuously available to me. It is canned and sparkling in my fridge, Colorado-fresh and free-flowing out my spigot, melodious in the creek by my home. Majestic in the expanse of wind-churned peaks across the surface of a nearby lake.  Thunderous and powerful over the falls. Thoroughly drenching from the skies. There is no lack of water in its availability to me. 

Even so, I barely quench my thirst when there is nothing else as refreshing or satisfying as water. 

I awoke this morning to Holy Spirit’s invitation to recognize His offer to drink deeply. My thirst is not met by His ubiquitous nature; it is met by my intentional consumption of Him. Not a sip here and there, not a gulp along with supplements, not my morning hot brew to awaken me for my day. His offer is saturation, steeping, ingesting, filling myself with Him. On cool days and scorchers alike. 

I need Him.
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Redeem These Ashes

3/26/2020

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​I remember the rush of bitterness washing over me in the bowling alley. I was less than ten years old, spending my Sunday afternoon along with my siblings being entertained by our father. It was our weekly visitation day, after the divorce, the day we got to represent our mother’s righteous demand for child support before a man who valued other things above his family.  As an adult I have far more grace for the brokenness behind failure. But when Holy Spirit returns such memories, there is a reason. 

The memory was triggered as I hiked a familiar trail alone in the isolation of the COVID-19 mandate to stay cloistered. Families are out in droves, staying in their cocooned clusters of “just us”. Stepping aside for a wife, toddler, and infant strapped to his daddy’s back, the memory flooded back to me in a flash. 

As a jaded child, I thought to myself looking around that bowling alley full of fathers and children, “If you had been there for your family when they needed you, you wouldn’t have to be here now in this meaningless ritual,” judging every sans-mother father there assigned a lane with his brood represented what our grouping did. Abandonment. Divorce. Feigned connection. 

My first response now is to invite Holy Spirit into this memory, into this pain that is still trigger-able for a reason. A wound unrecognized and therefore untended. 

What memories is this current crisis triggering for you in this time of unpredictability and even chaos? What are you feeling? 

The temptation is to quickly sweep the discomfort to the side, to walk past without addressing the underlying wound or even the fresh gouging of new assaults against your heart. But there is an invitation in the pain, a wooing into communion with the Great Physician, the Counselor, the One Who bears our grief. God brings beauty straight out of the charred remains of ashes. 

Come Holy Spirit. Lead us into all truth. We invite the healing Balm of Gilead into our most hidden places of wounding, in Jesus’ name.

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​Original Intent

11/28/2015

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Like the crumbling edifices of Havana, human lives still retain the beauty of Original Intent.
​In 1959 the triumph of the communist Revolution in Cuba saw the confiscation of private homes, farms, small businesses and companies. After decades of lack of maintenance due to scarcity of paint and building materials, many old buildings are crumbling. Currently, a significant cause of death in Cuba is building collapse. 

​Yet the beauty and original grandeur of these magnificent structures have not been lost. Likewise, the streets, many in disrepair, are full of old cars from an era 55 years past. 

I received instruction as I took in the sights of Cuba last week and met many Cubans from different walks of life. I thought about the Biblical account of creation, about humanity.  

The Bible conveys people were created by God with great potential, possessing inherent purpose and a bright destiny. But we read that many are deceived into believing life can be better with a revolution against God, with a rebellion against His Word, seeking man made idols, philosophies, and ideologies, all of which highjack the path to prosperity and arrest development. 

"And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and a delight to the eyes, and to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit, and gave it to her husband." (Genesis 3:6 BBE) 

Yet God's love never waivers, nor does the inherent dignity of mankind that comes as ones created in His image, destined for glory. Like the crumbling edifices of Havana, human lives still retain the beauty of Original Intent.  

"But God has made clear his love to us, in that, when we were still sinners, Christ gave his life for us." (Romans 5:8 BBE)

It's this redemption that brings full restoration. 

When the King of Kings sits in His righteous throne and when His Word is wholly functional in our own lives, God's purposes are fulfilled, and the beauty of His intentions for us shines. Thus, we reflect His radiant glory in the midst of every challenge we face. 

This reminds me of so many children with disabilities and their families in resource-poor Cuba, and even right here among the wealth of the United States. We face challenges every day, whether abled or disabled, but with God on our side, we will not be defeated.

"‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.’" (Jeremiah 29:11 NASB)
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"‘For I know the plans that I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.’"
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Jeremiah 29:11 NASB
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    Two of our three children have Tourette's Syndrome as well as a few other co-morbidities, inherited neuropsychiatric disorders. I'm still happily married, love life and want to share encouragement bringing hope, humor and insight into the process of raising children who are different. 

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